{"id":35155,"date":"2021-08-02T15:21:12","date_gmt":"2021-08-02T09:51:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marryadevotee.com\/vaishnavism\/helpie_faq\/can-i-message-many-devotees-propose-marriage\/"},"modified":"2021-09-30T08:52:34","modified_gmt":"2021-09-30T03:22:34","slug":"can-i-message-many-devotees-propose-marriage","status":"publish","type":"helpie_faq","link":"https:\/\/www.marryadevotee.com\/vaishnavism\/helpie_faq\/can-i-message-many-devotees-propose-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Can I message many devotees & propose marriage – simultaneously"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I “cluster bomb” many profiles with my messages, then one of them may become interested !<\/p>\n

If I take time to read each profile in detail and understand if I match their needs and if I really like what they like, the process may take a lot of time.<\/p>\n

I could send messages of interest to many people and they will then need to read my profile and then decide if they like me.<\/p>\n

It saves time and is probably more effective to get a partner in a short period of time.<\/p>\n

RIGHT ?<\/p>\n

ABSOLUTELY WRONG !!!<\/p>\n

This may help you get up on the wrong wall really fast !<\/p>\n

There are many flaws of this strategy.<\/p>\n

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  1. You are wasting so many devotees time & probably will earn bad karma !<\/li>\n
  2. You might send an interest to someone you are not interested in, and if they become interested in you and you have to later refuse them, it will hurt their hearts. Not a wise thing to do, specially because you initiated the chat.<\/li>\n
  3. If people start talking to each other and find out that you have messaged so many people at the same time, will you not run the risk of being branded a “flirt” or “immature” ?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Some suggest that it is best to depend on Krishna \u2013 approach a devotee you like \u2013 start communicating \u2013 if they do not write back within a reasonable time, then\u00a0write back \u2013 saying you are now going to start a discussion with another devotee, since they have not replied.<\/strong>\u00a0This way you are always following proper Vaisnava\u00a0etiquette. This is the recommended communication ethic.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    It is prudent to remember and remind others that we are getting married not for some personal satisfaction, but as a way and means to serve others and to serve God and society.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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